お返事の早い人

こんにちは、ドゥクールの高田みよこです。

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お見合いの日程調整で、お相手のお返事が異様に遅い＞＜

そんな経験ありませんか？

お仕事で忙しい!

メールをうっかり見逃していた！

え？いつものペースですけど？？

理由はいろいろあるでしょう。

お返事が早い、遅い の感覚は人それぞれ。

だけど、

何よりも優先して、お会いできる時間を作って欲しい。

人間ですから、素直にそう思います。

どうしても、4日後になる場合などは、事前に「回答までお日にちいただきます。ご予定が入る場合は優先してください。」とお詫び連絡を仲人さんに依頼しておきましょう。

お会いする前から、心証を悪くする行動はメリットゼロ。

お返事は早めに返す。

当たり前のことですが、当たり前のことは、慣れると雑になりがちです。

以前先輩に、お会いする日程候補を数日頂いたら、その人の命（＝時間）を頂いているんだ。と教わりました。

私も初心に戻り、即お返事を心がけます！

お問い合わせは下記フォームからお気軽に。